Here’s the problem with a lot of singles: We are extremist.
We either never want to get married or we can’t be happy unless we do.
But what’s really ironic is that the person who is able to find their God-arranged spouse AND have a wildly successful marriage is the person who doesn’t even need marriage to happen for them.
These are the people who have mastered the balance between enjoying singleness, yet still preparing for marriage. They have the ability to find, create, and maintain happiness and contentment no matter what stage of life they’re in.